“If you
want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you
want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.” Albert Einstein
There is an ancient Taoist story about a tree. The tree was old and crooked; every branch twisted and gnarled. Somebody walking by that old and crooked tree commented to Chuang Tzu what a useless tree it was; because the trunk and branches were so crooked the tree served no purpose at all. Chuang Tzu replied:
The tree on the mountain height
is its own enemy… The cinnamon tree is edible: so it is cut down! The lacquer
tree is profitable: they maim it. Every man knows how useful it is to be
useful. No one seems to know how useful it is to be useless.
The uselessness of the tree is
what protected it. Nobody wanted it for anything, so they didn’t cut it down,
and it lived to be very old, fulfilling its own nature.
“No one seems to know how
useful it is to be useless.” What does it mean to be useless? It means being
empty of striving to become something, to be anything special, freeing the mind
from that kind of gaining idea. To become useless is to settle back and allow
our own nature to express itself in a simple and easy way.
There’s a famous monk in
Thailand who summed up this attitude of mind, and indeed the whole Dharma, in a
very short saying. He said: “There is nothing to be, nothing to do, and nothing
to have.” Nothing special. Everything is impermanent, everything is in flow, in
constant transformation. If we can free ourselves of the striving to be someone
special, to be a certain way, or to have certain things – free of that desire
to do or to be or to have anything at all – we can settle back into the natural
unfolding of Dharma.
Joseph Goldstein, The Experience
of Insight, Shambala Dragon Editions, p131