Sunday, November 15, 2020

Beginnings of Future Blogs: quotes and ideas


Finding and Practicing Ways to expand 
Vision, Sensibility in these Contentious Times  as our "normal" selves wear thin

No such thing as Bad Weather,  just unsuitable clothing.

Build your opponent a golden bridge to retreat across    Sun Tzu

“Nothing so needs reforming as other people’s habits. Fanatics will never learn that, though it be written in letters of gold across the sky. It is the prohibition that makes anything precious.”            Mark Twain

Yard Rage & Civility     People Home           Noise is a bigtime stressor  

Loud Boys 

Educate, not threaten  foster compromise or arguments will never stop

Phrase from recent Times article : Random Morbidity

Sunday, November 8, 2020

Wayward Artist Lost in a Political World

 As much as we (I) might want to barricade the door of my studio, I can't: 

Thomas Friedman on Trump: Politics of Humiliation

Trump as White Male Icon

Donald Trump, Political Dyslexic:

"I believe, you know, in always speaking Power to truth."

"I don't see anything, I don't believe"

Wednesday, November 4, 2020

Casual Alchemy Booklet, June 2020

 

The Casual Alchemist June 2020.4      Your Ersions

Guides to Chaos, Order, Meaning and The Unknown

We all have our own special cast, our family, our clan of characters and characteristics that help make us who we are. We’ve inherited some and learned to favor and develop others. Some are big and noisy. Some we shun and shoo away, others arrive and visit quietly almost like a gentle breeze.

Some come and go. Getting to recognize and live with this group is a life-long adventure. They carry energy, meaning, joy and sadness into our lives.

 One old Greek said: Bidden or not, the gods arrive

The virus of this last year has changed the landscape and habitat of many of these forces. The slowing down and times in one place, particularly The Home have made these forces more available to humans. There’s now more opportunity to see them anew and learn more about them and their part in our lives. They are Guides, Tenders, Stationmasters of the Openings and Portals to learn more about our human nature and ways to create and renew meaning in our lives. First, these energies do not really have any one or simple name or form. They are tendencies, bundles, inflections. They have appeared throughout human history as fairy folk, alux, household gods, invisible friends, anima, Ix, Ux, Icklers, Itz, Itches, Ersions.

Tricksters bring with them the gifts of illumination, playfulness, revelation, truth and balance. the ability to help us question life, embrace uncertainty and become receptive to seeing everything just as it is. What is Your Flavor of Holy Madness? think about your own inner Trickster. Has it been judged, banished, fered? outlawed to your Shadow? Do you give it enough healthy expression in your life? What does it look like, sound like and feel like? www.terrain.org/reviews/8/christensen.htm

fairies, demons, nature spirits and the other ‘small gods’ haunting the margins of Christendom

undisciplined tendency to evade such efforts at exorcism. Lurking in forest or fairy-mound, chuckling in dark corners of the home or of the demoniac’s body, they both define and disturb the borders of a religion that is endlessly syncretistic and in endless, active denial of its own syncretism.'Small Gods' at the Margins of Christendom  Ostling,Michaelbritannica.com/topic/angel-religion/Types-of-angels-and-demons

 

 

 

But they do all share certain ways:

They prefer to be off-center, hiding in the margins, wayward, shadowy, interstitial.

 They are nature-based  waiting to integrate animal and human nature, accessing the wisdom inherent in instinctual nature.     Be in Nature.  They are there.

They believe in the positive value of disorder, decay, uncertainty, anxiety, waiting. They vex and annoy to stay in touch, alert. They believe in “inherent vice”:  the tendency of material to deteriorate due to the essential instability of the components or interaction with other things.  They are committed to Change, ushering new “versions” of things, all kinds of versions.

 They are Shapeshifters: appearing as people, animals, objects, events using tricks and accidents to convey meaning.

The Spiral,  particularly The Meandering Spiral is a comfortable image for them.

They are dedicated to holding opposites and polarities together.  This is the way they put it to Buddha:  “Things are not what they seem,  nor are they otherwise.”

 They made sure The Gospel of Thomas was written, lost, then found, 1900 years later

“The Kingdom of God is inside/within you and all about you, not in buildings/mansions of wood and stone. When I am gone. Split a piece of wood and I am there, lift the/a stone and you will find me."

They inhabit a different form of Time. Theirs is Kairos, time infused with meaning. Our preferred form of time is Chronos, regular, linear time.

Ways and Times Humans Might encounter them

 Recall Defining Life Events. breech birth, lost body parts, early deaths.  They present in even normal shifts/jolts in human use of time & space through job change, aging, sickness, moving, trauma. Take note of events of disorder in your Home: accidents, breaks, leaks. This is their language. They like being remembered in Stories of unusual events, coincidences.

Be alert to Shadows and Patterns

Be with Children, especially 3 to 6 year old’s, who have ways of sensing the feral and the fleeting. Check those pictures they give you.

Also, be alert to children’s Imaginal Friends and favored toys

the invention of invisible friends can be seen as an exercise in the understanding of others’ points of view, imagination used in the service of social maturing. “Appreciating the knowledge, desires, intentions, or perspectives of another is ultimately an act of the imagination,” Wigger points out. “By playing with mind, by imaginatively representing other minds—even when invisible—children are fine-tuning their ability to understand others” (p. 107).

www.davidhalperin.net/invisible-companions-imaginary-friends-and-j-bradley-wigger/

Play with the Words Discover prefixes, suffixes, rhymes, anagrams and puns that fit with Ersions, Ix, Ux, Icklers, Itz, Itches. They like this kind of play.

You may be lucky enough to come upon their nest. where they keep their toolkits of bees legs, finger and toenails, stolen puzzle pieces, toothpaste caps and used dental floss.

They especially present in Objects made, found, gifted and bought. 

 Make them offerings. They respond to attention from humans.  It may be filling birdfeeders or repairing a broken cup.

In your home altars and totems.  It’s likely you already have a relationship with these characters. Check what’s collected on your mantles, shelves and dresser tops.

They are skilled in asemic writing, a pre-conscious communication almost impossible for humans to understand consciously. Be Alert to bits of this you might have around. Sometimes it’s the hair you find on the shower wall

They usually inhabit marginal objects:   Folk Art, Scholars Rocks, Outsider Art, Deviant Art, Street Art, Found Art

Scholars Rocks Use the grotesque and picturesque, the sacred and profane. built around an appreciation for experimentation; sensuous, biomorphic forms; refined, carefully wrought materials; a sense of humor and whimsy

Scholar's rock (gongshi) based on subtleties of color, shape, markings, surface, and sound. Prized qualities include: awkward,overhanging asymmetry[10]  resonance/ringing when struck[10] representation or resemblance to mountainous landscapes, particularly ones believed to be inhabited by immortal beings [1] or figure[10][11]  texture[10]    moistness or glossy surface[10]   The stone may be displayed on a rosewood pedestal carved specifically for the stone.

most amazing is the duality of scale, the way the forms continually switch between miniature and actual size, from rock to mountain to rock again.  various textures -- smooth, dimpled, pocked, rippling, folded and wrinkled -- enhance this fluidity by suggesting bronze, wood, ceramic and elephant skin. almost motion, suggest cascading sheets of water rather than stone. the power of the scholars' rocks lies in the way their formal fluidity mirrors the shifting fluidity of the human imagination.their seeming naturalness cuts through the defenses briought to more obviously manufactured works of art. these objects set the mind in motion with unusual directness, inspiring esthetic experience                                               FLOW? Kairos

What OBJECTS are Emerging?  WHY  “Wholeness” via melancholy to vex rein in 

They are meant as prickers, ticklers for your own thinking and feeling.  

In the ancient world each thing was seen as inhabited by a daemon, a kind of intermediary between the gods and the earthly world.  Proclus said: “What we see is not the god himself, but an emanation from him which is partly mortal, partly divine, and even this we do not see with our physical eyes but with the eyes of our astral  body according to the principle ‘like is perceived by like’.” Learning is the discipline required to awaken the astral or soul body, the capacity to perceive the outer world as image. The central task of learning is not accumulation of information, but learning to learn. process consists of coming to realize the individual body in conjunction with the body of the world and to appreciate the  conjunction as container and reflector of soul p51       www.sup.org/books/title/?id=31306

Objects, frequently remain idle around us for a long period of time. After we have used them, they rest inanimate, there, in our living places gathering dust, waiting to perform their next task. This idling is the object’s “INANIMATE MOMENTS”, when an object can offer new expressive possibilities. Now the object is there alone and perhaps not functioning it is only something to look at. Its presence Has to speak for itself  this can be the signifying moment that permits us to design in the object a  moment-story: a metaphorical moment,

 a connecting moment.                                                                 http://publish.uwo.ca/~pschweng/Site/Main_Page.html

https://phmuseum.com/guybatey/story/the-melancholy-of-objects-e637386546

They Influence how and what humans make.  We are all makers.. Some of us make dinner, objects, trouble … The hands are an extension of what’s in our hearts. We have to Make. They want us all to get involved.


Again, it’s objects in service of meaning and interaction.

Find people in touch with them

Carl Jung recognized them as “Archetypes”

 

Poet W. H. Auden:We are being lived by powers we pretend to understand.”     

 

Rumi, Mary Oliver, Pablo Neruda know them

 

Albert Einstein The intuitive mind is a sacred gift andthe rational mind is a faithful servant.

If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairytales. If you want them to be

more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.

 

Thich Nhat Hanh calls them “The Remembrances”.  He describes five:

 

1. I am subject to aging. No way to avoid aging. 

2. I am subject to ill health. No way to avoid illness.

3. I am going to die. No way to avoid death 

4. Everyone and thing I love will change and be separated from me.

5. Only true possessions are my actions, I cannot escape their consequences.

Do not suppress knowledge of our frailty, impermanence and fears that lie in the depths of our consciousness. To be free of these fears invite the Remembrances into our consciousness and stop seeing them as enemies.


Friday, October 2, 2020

Useless

“If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you

want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.” Albert Einstein


There is an ancient Taoist story about a tree. The tree was old and crooked; every branch twisted and gnarled. Somebody walking by that old and crooked tree commented to Chuang Tzu what a useless tree it was; because the trunk and branches were so crooked the tree served no purpose at all.   Chuang Tzu replied:

The tree on the mountain height is its own enemy… The cinnamon tree is edible: so it is cut down! The lacquer tree is profitable: they maim it. Every man knows how useful it is to be useful. No one seems to know how useful it is to be useless.

 

The uselessness of the tree is what protected it. Nobody wanted it for anything, so they didn’t cut it down, and it lived to be very old, fulfilling its own nature.

“No one seems to know how useful it is to be useless.” What does it mean to be useless? It means being empty of striving to become something, to be anything special, freeing the mind from that kind of gaining idea. To become useless is to settle back and allow our own nature to express itself in a simple and easy way.

There’s a famous monk in Thailand who summed up this attitude of mind, and indeed the whole Dharma, in a very short saying. He said: “There is nothing to be, nothing to do, and nothing to have.” Nothing special. Everything is impermanent, everything is in flow, in constant transformation. If we can free ourselves of the striving to be someone special, to be a certain way, or to have certain things – free of that desire to do or to be or to have anything at all – we can settle back into the natural unfolding of Dharma.

Joseph Goldstein, The Experience of Insight, Shambala Dragon Editions, p131

 

Saturday, September 5, 2020

Friday, September 4, 2020

Busy Shadows

I spent a week in mid-August at a Wayward Research Facility in Easton, MD. The lead researcher, W,  was just about to turn three years old. Two of her many seminars were memorable.  She would take us on a tour of the facility and every time we passed a mirror, especially full length ones, she would remark.  "There, see your Shadow"  We were never quite sure whether it was a statement or a question.  It provoked a short meditation on the nature of Shadow, that's it's always with us and a review of the ancient practice of Scrying, the intentional encounter with your own image. 

The other seminar was held outside.  We would all follow W's lead and start to move.  First there were yoga poses, then it got a bit faster and more dirvish-like.  Several of us lost our balance and fell over. We said that we got "dizzy". W would comment that we fell over because we were "Busy." We then 
returned to our private areas for a meditation on the effects of contemporary life on spiritual centering
She invited to watch this YouTube on Archetypal Imbalance. https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=ddkqMfBbGN8


Sunday, August 30, 2020

Heads

My carving and assemblage work over the last years has returned several times to HEADS.      Heads that break off, heads that get carved alone, heads I get stuck in.  

In Celtic tradition, it is believed that the power of a person, his Soul, lived in the Head. As an honor to a slain enemy, there was a practice of severing the head, preserving it in cedar oil and displaying it, not as vindication, but as honoring Soul

GAME of HEADS

PSYCHE




Head Case

Thursday, July 30, 2020

Remembering Our Wolves, as Politics Heats Up


THE WOLF YOU FEED
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two "wolves" inside us all. 
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego. 
The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed.”

Sunday, July 26, 2020

Two Quotes and an Interview

for those of us examining and reexamining directions and needs

Artists can choose what their profession will be about—
inventing deceptions that encourage more consumption—
or helping repair the worldDavid Berman (Do Good Design)

Learn to dwell in timelessness, give yourself away, tend youth  andyfisher.     

And this Interview with Murray Stein                       

Wednesday, July 15, 2020

Re-Visiting Morse Peckham

These kaleidoscopic times churn and turn up new/old insights.
I've been re-reading the rich works of cultural historian
Morse Peckham (1914-1993). 
Here are my notes and underlinings from one of his books:

Art and Pornography  (1969)       
Art is the exposure to the tensions and problems of a false world so that man may endure exposing himself to the tensions and problems of the real world”

Anarchy is the mother of Order   Source of Tension:  Libido always trying to control the Ego which was trying to absorb the Libido.  Freud

Art offers not order but perceptual disorder or discontinuity,  contact with chaos

Art is rehearsal for the orientation that makes innovation possible
flickering between need for stability predictability control and innovation  risk  (free energy)
Story-Making 85 is a near instinctual activity forward, backwards, always adjusting     
All discourse is equally fictional. Putting changing, meaningless bits into a meaningful context Managing  multiple, shifting  social roles/personal (archetypal) needs Making meaningful organization of Materials via the Imagination     Contact with the Unpredictable
Porn is a Storyline, like political propaganda and religious art:   simplified view/fairy dust sacred
Human beings prefer stability to innovation… 99.9% of genetic variations are dysfunctional. Stick with ones that work  132 Human beings have two primary but divergent and irreconcilable interests. to stabilize the cognitive model;  the other is to compensate for the necessary inadequacy of the model correcting and improving through innovation
Exemplary thinking 156  is a relief from explanatory and theoretical thinking, so mediating non-verbal thinking is a further relief  157        
No aspect of the empirical world is meaningful until it elicits a behavioral response
Unreal = inability to organize it into an available belief system vs Rational/real  = cooperates with known belief system   165  Interest=activity that serves to smooth the adaptational process
Cognitive Overload 177 precedes powerful innovative thrusts/breakthroughs                                        
Need for Multiplicity of roles/models  179                     
Man is free and freedom threatens stability/predictability  two aspects of same thing: 181        
Paradise 189  = no disparity between cognitive and sensory data, (Ego and Libido)
Harmony between remembered, projected and perceived realities,  The Head, Hand, Heart
No social management necessary, futility of anarchy, trance, cult, religious deference of personal authority 192 “vacation from cognitive tension”  Issues of hierarchy, dominance, authority competition for scarce resources
NEED to disengage  from controlled society (stability/predictability) 298     
Beliefs in how much stability/Innovation is tolerable, or destructive Art-Making can effect that 300

Sunday, July 5, 2020

Roadmap to introspection

This 7-page booklet may help jumpstart
some needed processing
FAST START

Saturday, June 27, 2020

More through the Kaleidoscope

This Image of the Kaleidoscope has lingered for these few months.  Pieces getting re-ordered, and re-ordered; patterned and re-
patterned. the Meaning has to be discovered within the Change.
So I offer a few pieces from a stack of notes and clippings for your ordering pleasure:

"The art of medicine consists of amusing the patient while nature cures the disease"  Voltaire

"Life and Life Abundantly Comes Through Expression"  in an Arts & Crafts era pamphlet

Human nature loves heartily well-balanced irregularity and longs for it in life, in character, 
and in almost everything else     Calvert Vaux  

“attitude more than aptitude”       


We are not human beings having a spiritual experience.
We are spiritual beings having a human experience.               Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

The Arrowhead         Mary Oliver

The arrowhead,  which I found beside the river,
was glittering and pointed.
I picked it up, and said,  “Now, it’s mine.”
I thought of showing it to friends.
I thought of putting it—such an imposing trinket—
in a little box, on my desk.
Halfway home, past the cut fields,
the old ghost  stood under the hickories.
“I would rather drink the wind,” he said,
“I would rather eat mud and die
than steal as you steal,
than lie as you lie.”

More coming

Friday, June 12, 2020

Four Horsemen

For Introverts:

what's happening: Umbra Mundi
chironpublications.com/a-world-shadow-covid-19/

For Extraverts:

The best long-range view of what's (been) happening that I've seen.
onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/bies.202000063


Let me know what you think.

Monday, June 8, 2020

Eric Neumann Scapegoating; Spiritual Accompaniment


In his book “Depth Psychology and a new Ethic,” written in response to the Holocaust, Neumann argues that the “old ethic,” which pursued an illusory perfection by repressing the “shadow,” has lost its power to deal with contemporary problems. He argued that Judeo-Christian morality represses evil, leading to horrific phenomena such as Nazism. Every person has to accept the evil within him or her, not to cast it away and not to repress but to live with it, sometimes even to manifest it, and to pay the price of sorrow and guilt feelings. He was convinced that the deadliest danger now confronting humanity is the “scapegoat” psychology associated with the old ethic. We are in the grip of this psychology when we project our own dark shadow onto an individual or group identified as our “enemy,” failing to see it in ourselves. The only alternative to this shadow projection is its recognition, and integration into the totality of the self. The goal of the new ethic is wholeness, not perfection.      From Jurgen Braungardt’s website

This practice of "Spiritual Accompaniment" may be a bridge.
It's the process of contemplative listening carried out in the context of a one-to-one trusting and confidential relationship. A trained spiritual director journeys with another person by listening to that person’s life story and experiences with an ear for the movement of the spirit, the presence of the sacred, and/or the insights that come from making deep meaningful connections. By offering supportive responses as appropriate and encouraging deepening reflection, clients can open up to new understandings and paths of growth. Spiritual accompaniment is typically conducted in monthly sessions that range from 45 - 60 minutes.

Thursday, June 4, 2020

Premonition?

This is an excerpt of an article I wrote in 2016 for a SandPlay Journal.


Symptoms of the Shift and Emerging Needs       (2016)                                
In the midway of this our mortal life, I found me in a gloomy wood, astray
- gone from the path Direct.                 - Dante, Canto 1

"In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. 
We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit."   - Albert Schweitzer

It can happen in a bang, a thud or… a whisper.    The bang might be an accident, a death or illness; the thud might be a birthday, a job loss. The whisper is more insidious. You begin to notice that things are not quite the same-- indicators of  Dante’s “gloomy wood.  Schweitzer calls it the “fire going out”;  it’s been called  the dark night of the soul or a spiritual emergency or a hunger.

It happens often in our lifetimes.  These tasks or concerns are really never finished and completed, but get revisited and reworked as we grow.  This book may assist. I do say “may”  because I believe there is not A Way to do this.  You have to figure out what’s best for you now.  That “now” is always slipping around a bit. I’ve identified four moods that you might recognize. Each has their own level of dreaminess, emotion and alertness.  Then there are four basic needs, hungers or capacities were all have.  Then for there are five ways of engaging: visually, looking at images, reading poems or quotes that sharpen the sensibility, reflecting on ways your personally encounter these, moving into action as actually a way to explore and fifthly, encountering stories of others who have been similarly engaged: Finding Your Clan

What is happening as we enter these borderlands?     Is any of this familiar?

THE SHELL SOFTENS
The Weave Loosens. We become more porous.
Our storyline has changed.  We are left exposed in new ways. Sometimes there are body changes which only adds to a more  fragile public image. Sometimes we get testy and righteous.  Other times we just feel wounded.  We feel softer, actually more pliant.  The challenge is to adjust, adapt.  Carl Jung elaborated the many characters that appear in our stories. Some come and go. Some come and stay. Other are waiting for their turn. He called them “archetypes”. You carry them all. 

The Guest House              translation by Coleman Barks
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whatever comes.
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.                    -- Jelaluddin Rumi                                                    
2.  SADNESS.   
We may grieve over the loss of our work, our old ways, our friends.  Sometimes that’s more a nostalgia than sadness. But before the word “sadness” came to mean “sorrowful“, it meant  “weary“, “weighty” in the sense that we have had “enough”.  That feeling surfaces often in our lives, It’s a Melancholy that can be the opening of an opportunity. There’s a fullness of experience, and yet the question: What Now?  

My brother and I stand like the fences
of abandoned farms, changed times
too loosely webbed against
deicide homicide
A really powerful blow
would bring us down like scarecrows.
Nature, knowing this, finding us mildly useful
indulging also
her backhanded love of freakishness
allows us to stand.                          Daniel Berrigan

3.  OTHER MOODS EMERGE
we are more keenly aware different qualities of attention or states of consciousness:

Needing a Trance? Feel open to Chance, Accident, Magic, relinquishing control?  Undifferentiated encounter with eros, dissolution, longing ?

Are you drawn Inward? working on that archetypal profile: Who You Are?

Eager to Explore Actions, Practices, encounters with the creative unconscious.?

Are you vexed, pre-occupied today! Focus right on it!
Use it as your portal in.

4. TIME WARPS
As we pick or lurch our way through unexpected changes, our sense of time changes. It might elongate into memories of the past people, places, events.  It might contract into “lapses” about details of recent vacations, appointments or parties. It’s a time-shifting from the linear/diary/date book mode to a more dynamic/firing mode.  Without a schedule or regular obligations, time expands and contracts in random ways. We may be more easily distracted or pursue digressions without much consequence.  We can actually develop new eyes, new skills to be in this adjusted world. It’s not unlike dreams and it stimulates poetic and magical thinking.  Other senses and sensibilities are stirred.  But Other realities present and seep through.  They are not new.  They have been with us our whole life, waiting, on the shelf, in the corner while we worked and distracted ourselves. This is time now for them to present, not necessarily as handicaps, but often as invitations or opportunities. I found several. You probably know more or might phrase them differently:
We may start to approach imperfection and mistakes in a different way.  Perhaps we don’t get as impatient or righteous quite as quickly. Our flashpoint might dim a bit. It starts with others and then it can even loop back to the ways we treat ourselves.  Again, this is an archetypal process. The Judge, The Critic, may no longer always be center stage. We may come to see that mastery is OK, but usually overrated.   Other characters may appear.: wounded, androgynous, child-like.
We come to appreciate time for blossoming, fruiting, seeding and being dormant. It may start as simply as the curiosity at what might happen if we wait, just an extra beat or two before we jump in to fix or even express an opinion. We wait.

From   One Train May Hide Another (sign at a railroad crossing in Kenya)

At a crossing, one train may hide another train.
That is, if you are waiting to cross
The tracks, wait to do it for one moment at
Least after the first train is gone.
In a family one sister may conceal another,
So, when you are courting, it's best to have them all in view
Otherwise in coming to find one you may love another.
So always standing in front of something --  the Other
As words stand in front of objects, feelings, and ideas.
One wish may hide another.And one person's reputation may hide The reputation of another. One dog may conceal another
On a lawn, so if you escape the first one you're not necessarily safe;  One bath may hide another bath As when, after bathing, one walks out into the rain.  A vivacious mother hides a gawky daughter.   The daughter hides her own vivacious daughter in turn.  One teacher, one doctor, one ecstasy, one illness, one woman, one man May hide another. Pause to let the first one pass. You think, Now it is safe to cross,  and you are hit by the next one.
It can be important to have waited at least a moment to see what was already there.                                   Kenneth Koch

5. TECHNOLOGICAL FATIGUE
So certain changes happen. The speed and ease of technology might not be as satisfying.  Consumption of more things may not be as appealing. We may begin to suspect that the  Promethean myth of glorious progress and growth may have its darker sides. Our culture is quite quick to diagnose, to medicalize subtler ways of being into symptoms, "the spectrum" and conditions to be fixed. Just before we lurch into such action, are other opportunities are emerging, other ways to see the changes?